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When it comes to the topic of looks with women, most guys are usually clueless and confused. They tend to think in extremities: you either need to look like Brad Pitt to pick up decent looking women, or you can look like a homeless and still get laid.

The truth is in-between.

I’m sure you have seen model-looking guys with hot women and thought she must have only been with him because of his looks. On the contrary, you might have also seen butt-ugly guys with the hottest girls, which left you wondering. To understand the situation better, let’s talk about the details of your first interaction with a girl.

As psychologists say, people will have formed a firm opinion about you within the first 30 seconds or 1 minute of meeting you. This is especially true for women. How can you make a good impression on people? With your looks and with your attitude. (body language, eye-contact, words)

And here comes the most protected dirty little secret of seduction gurus:

When a woman checks you out, she will not look at your face. She will look at your shoes and check whether they are polished or not. She will look at your nails and see if they are long or dirty. She will look at your clothes to see whether they are clean or not, how they go together with your image/personality and what they communicate. Having a style that is also consistent with your personality is one of the most important things.

You are a man and you will look at a girl’s breasts, check out her ass and see if she has a baby face. But women always look at the big picture and the way you come off from the first second of meeting you. She will picture herself in her head with you together and think what people would say about her if she went out with you.

Women are self-validation junkies, they are constantly looking for the approval of other people and you will be another piece of this puzzle as well. Girls don’t want a man on their side who doesn’t know how to look or behave.

Thus the first step towards improving your success is fixing your looks.

You might say that your looks is something you can’t change. This is dead wrong. You don’t need plastic surgery to improve your looks by at least 2 points on a scale from 1 to 10. All you need is to be neat, tidy and to have some style.

If you have big red acne on your face, get proper treatment. If your hair is greasy and long, wash it and get a stylish haircut. If you dress like a nerd, go to the local shopping center and get some new clothes. You don’t have to spend a million bucks on clothes; style doesn’t mean dressing expensively, it means dressing fashionably. If you are too thin, put on some muscle. If you are fat, get on a diet.

Do you catch what I’m saying? Just by taking care of yourself a little bit, you can leave a much better impression on people and the women you interact with.

To summarize it, your looks matter as long as you don’t care about it. As soon as you get that handled, girls won’t care whether you look like Brad Pitt or not. As long as you have the proper attitude of course. And that is what I’ll talk about in my next article. Stay tuned.

And if you can’t wait or just don’t want to, check out my book

There can be a very fine line between a sexy transvestite and a crossdresser that has gone overboard on their make up! One of the most important things to remember is that less is definitely more when it comes to transvestites make up. After all you don’t want to end up looking like a stage drag queen or one of the ugly sisters in Cinderella, which you could easily end up looking like if you do not do your make-up correctly!

Whilst that best advice for applying crossdressers make up is to just generally follow the rules women use for make up there are some other important considerations that a crossdresser has to consider to transform from a ordinary bloke so a sexy T-girl.

“It’s pointless putting make up on without any preparation first”

First you need to look at your skin. Males obviously have more facial hair than (most) women which is why if you want to be really convincing your preparation is the most important thing to concentrate on and you will need a lot of time just to get your skin ready to take make up. Cleansing, toning and moisturising – this should be done every morning & evening and then exfoliation (your whole body) is a must at least once a week. Then make sure you have a very close shave, you don’t want a 5o’clock shadow giving the game away! Then get to those nose hairs with tweezers plus pluck your eyebrows into a nice feminine shape & if necessary you may need to use wax strips to remove your manly mono brow!

Now that your skin is nicely prepared you need to start considering your actual makeup and first on the list is concealer which helps to hide any skin blemishes or spots and can also help with concealing dark beard tones. Along with the foundation they will help with achieving an even skin colour, but the more natural tone the better, no trowelled on foundation please! Make sure you choose a foundation that is correct for your skin colour.

Next men don’t generally have very feminine features, so you may have to use make up to slightly modify the shape of your face, enhance skin colour and you will need to consider highlighting features that are classed as feminine such as thinner shaped eyebrows, strong cheekbones & full lips. To show off your cheekbones a blusher will be required for shading and high-lighting, your eyes can be made to look a lot sexier with the application of some eye shadow & eye liner, and finally to produce those luscious cupid-bow lips, a lip-liner is a must along with a good quality plumping lipstick.

This however is only the start, whilst the face is one of the most important considerations to any man wanting to become a convincing transvestite it is only a small part in the whole look! Many TVs/CDs forget about their hands which can easily give your true identity away. Again a woman’s hands tend to be much softer so by applying just a little hand/nail cream every day, investing time into manicures/pedicures and the use of good quality acrylic nails, you can soon have you feminine alter-ego perfected in no time.

If you are serious about finding your femininity and being a convincing crossdresser or transvestite the best advice is to get a big mirror, invest in some good quality male grooming products as these are formulated for male skin, buy some good make up and then practice, practice & practice as this makes perfect!

Eight successful, intelligent women sat around a dinner table during a girls’ night out last year. Six of them were married with babies while the other two, including me, were single. Between starters and mains, the conversation shifted from complaints about domestic workers to the consistency of baby pooh. I was feeling edgy. ‘My sister in London says Ronnie’s playgroup phones her to fetch him if he has a hint of diarrhoea in his nappy. They refuse to deal with it,’ one said disapprovingly. (She’s a high-powered attorney – who knew?) While the others tut-tutted and contributed their own faecal horror stories, my fellow singleton and I exchanged looks of desperation. Eventually, she and I huddled together, topped up our wine and began discussing the demise of America the superpower.

The truth is, while hitched women buy houses, have babies, choose lounge suites and generally keep the economy going, single women do other things – such as, you know, travel Asia alone, write books, change the world. Singletons are beautifully self-contained units. Isn’t it time they were recognized for their contribution to society?

If you’ll allow me to generalize for a moment, single people push boundaries. They say ‘Yeah, why not?’ to impromptu invitations for road trips and yachting regattas. Attached people look nervous and reply, ‘Weeeell, I’ll have to check with Geoff first and let you know.’

Singletons happily camp at music festivals, falling into their tents at 6am. Couples opt for comfort over experience, checking into B & Bs so they can watch DSTV in their matching waffle-weave bathrobes. Single women wear tiny, lacy knickers and make time for manicures; women in couples prefer sensible cotton briefs and claim they’re too busy for self-indulgence. Single girls ask you, ‘Should I get a belly ring or hair extensions for summer, or both?’

Your attached friends muse, ‘I’m wondering whether to go for the aqua mosaic or the travertine splashback in the kitchen.’ When single friends arrive at your place for girls’ night they say, ‘Excuse me while I find myself a cocktail.’ Attached women say, ‘Sorry, I have to SMS Thabo so he knows I’ve arrived safely.’

A Single-Minded Approach

Since I’m now, ahem, in quite a serious relationship – which I am rather enjoying, by the way – I’ve taken it upon myself to bring to coupledom the life lessons singledom taught me. And if you don’t want to end up as one of those saddo couples who spend weekends watching DVDs in tracksuit pants and Crocs, listen up.

Be mysterious, keep wearing your ‘get lucky’ underwear, go out whenever possible instead of staying in, take salsa classes, keep flirting, act as though life holds infinite possibilities (it always does) and never, ever stop coordinating your handbag with your outfit, okay? Don’t drop those decadent evenings-for-one, where you eat Lindor in a bubble bath while Joss Stone croons sexily in the background. Never stop wearing impractical high heels when the occasion calls for it. (Why are those always the first to go? Attached women wear beaded slipslops with their beige cropped pants.)

And please, girlfriends, don’t lose your identity. You kind of need it, whether you’re on your own or part of a twosome. This means retaining your personal e-mail address, no matter what – none of that tomandsarah@mail.com business or, worse, using his e-mail address when you go on maternity leave. (Hello, how can your friends send you top-secret girlie gossip and photos of hot, topless men if your guy is all over it like a rash?)

Hooray for the single life, for freedom, spontaneity and self-expression. Coupledom? It brings commitment, sharing and stability, and probably turns us into better people. So stand by your man, by all means – but also stand by your thong and all it signifies.

When it comes to satisfying your woman sexually having the ability to stimulate her clitoris in more ways than one is going to have her appreciating being with you again and again. In this article, you will learn a powerful clitoral stimulation technique that will literally have her begging for more.

Of course, before you actually use this powerful clitoral stimulation technique you are going to want to make sure that your hands and fingers are clean and well groomed.

Basically, just make sure that your hands are really clean and that your fingernails are clipped very short, otherwise you might hurt her if you accidentally catch her most sensitive parts with a sharp fingernail.

Now, that your hands are clean and your nails trimmed it is time to focus on the really important aspects of this powerful clitoral stimulation technique.

The first thing you need to do is get her in the mood as unlike men who can be turned on at the drop of a hat, women need some quality foreplay in order to get in the mood.

In order to do this, you are going to want to pay some attention to her other erogenous zones, one great way to do this is by giving her a sensual massage which will also put her in a position where when it does come time to use this powerful clitoral stimulation technique.

Okay, so now let’s move on to the actual technique.

Note: The following technique is tried and true, however, it is important to remember that every woman is different so pay close attention to her reaction and change up the technique as necessary based on her reaction.

The powerful clitoral stimulation technique is as follows: 

Make sure that you have a high quality Female arousal gel like G Female Stimulation Gel to use during the rest of this technique. Apply G Female Stimulation gel under the hood of her clitoris Put your first two fingers together and place them over the top of her clitoris. Make sure that her clitoris and your fingers are well lubricated which they should be if you used the G Female Stimulation gel from step #1 Vary your speed and pressure until you find something that drives her wild.

Overall, this powerful clitoral stimulation technique has give women some amazing orgasms especially when you use a female stimulating gel like G with these techniques.

Also, believe it or not this is one of the more common ways that women like to use when masturbating so don’t be surprised when her body responds very strongly and positively by having an orgasm rather quickly.

Of course, realizing that she might orgasm rather quickly and at the same time still be highly aroused also consider having a natural personal lubricant like Carrageenan All Natural Personal Lubricant which men and women agree has a most like a woman feel to it that way the two of you can enjoy the sexual experience for as long as you like.